Questions:
1.) Some people say I'm nice or sweet, does that mean I am?
2.) Some people say I'm the bitch from hell, does that mean I am?
3.) Some people say bad things behind my back, does that make them true?
4.) Some people say bad things to my face, does that make them better?
5.) Some people say I'm obsessed with attention, does that make it true?
6.) Some people say I'm too shy for my own good, does that make it the truth?
7.) Some people will tell me what's wrong with me right to my face, does that make them honest?
8.) Some people think that insulting others will make them feel better about themselves, does it really?
9.) Some people say one thing and then do the exact opposite, does that make them liars?
10.) Some people will never tell others what they really think about them, does that make them awful?
Answers:
1.) I guess that it really depends. At times I can be, this I will admit. And to certain people I'm always as nice as I can manage, because they deserve it more than others. Some people just need someone there to be nice or sweet to make them feel better. Others seem to want to haul off and hit me for it. So it can be true at certain times, around certain people. And if I'm not sweet or nice to the wrong people, then my apologies, let me know. So overall: Maybe
2.) To certain people, yes, I believe that I might very well seem to be the bitch from hell. Clash with my personality too much and disregard or insult me and I will be bitchy to you alot of the time. If you hurt my friends, even in the slightest, then I will be bitchy towards you no matter if I know you or not. Hurting my friends is not something I appreciate in the slightest, even if they might claim it doesn't bother them much at all. So overall: If you do the wrong thing at the right moment.
3.) Why would saying them behind my back make them any truer than saying them right in front of me? It might actually make them less than likely to be true, if you're too afraid to say them right to me. I mean, come on, all I ask is that you tell me. Don't like me? TELL ME AND I'LL FUCKING GO AWAY!!! Cold shoulder me for no reason, snap at me when I did nothing, say something untrue... that's not telling enough, I much prefer words. So overall on the whole behind-my-back: Hell no
4.) Actually, I think that it does make them better. Say something bad right to my face and at least I'll have no doubts about how you really feel. I like it much better that way, no matter how upsetting it might be. Rant about it to others to your heart's extent, but I beg that you tell me too. Right to my face, so you can see my reaction, if I have one. Otherwise I'll never know. My dreams only tell me so much, guys, I can't know everything. My head would explode if I did. So overall: Yes
5.) Saying it doesn't make it true. Saying something that untrue only makes you look like an absolute ass in my eyes, and the eyes of anyone who really knows me. If I really wanted attention, then guess what I would do? Cut myself again, make fresh scars, and wear a short sleeved t-shirt to show off the bright red marks. Or just up and start screaming for no reason at all. Maybe run through campus buck-naked. I sure as hell wouldn't keep so many things bottled up and tell only little bits and pieces when the mood strikes me if I wanted attention. I would tell the world. So... overall: Nope
6.) Could, even though the whole saying it still doesn't mean all that much. I do spend a decent amount of time each day alone, or just with people with whom I've already established some sort of relationship with. Meeting new people is fine and all, in small dosages, but I can get shy in front of large groups, or when I just get put right on the spot. So overall: True in some ways, but not because anyone says it's so.
7.) Sure does. I have extreme amounts of respect for people who can tell me (or anyone for that matter) what they think of them right to their face. It would make life a whole lot easier if everyone just did that, instead of trying to hide it or make everything seem nice. It might prevent some drama too... and keep people from playing off of other's pain to get attention for themselves; if they'll just say what they think straight out instead of waiting until they have the perfect words to make everyone listen to them, no matter if it brings the first person's pain back or not. So overall: Yes'm
8.) It might very well. But if it does then you need severe help with that particular dysfunction of yours. Although everyone does it in small doses, it helps keep us all sane, but there is a line that must be drawn. Cross that line a couple of times and you're going to become the local gossip who is always talking and never, ever shutting her mouth. Hurting other people, even those you claim to care about, might not even matter to you... so long as you feel better for some sick reason by tearing everyone around you down. Someday you might even hope that they hear everything, it'll make it better. So overall: Maybe, but who cares?
9.) Depends on the circumstances, really. Now, if you say that you hate a certain someone and then go act all cheerily happy and friendly towards them, then I'm going to say you're either a liar or a hypocrit. ESPECIALLY if you tell others to do the exact opposite of what you did. I mean... seriously, who does that? And why? In other cases it may be understandable to a certain extent, but only in some cases. The majority are not 'some cases', they are just what they appear to be. People saying one thing and doing its polar opposite because it's easier. Except... life isn't easy, trust me on that one, I've one through enough to know. Overall: Most likely.
10.) It very well can, unless, of course, you never know said person. Now if this person is supposedly your friend and you go months without telling them what you really think of them, then I'm going to slip in a vote in favor of you being on the awful side. If you don't like someone (such as a 'friend' not liking me for example) then just tell them why you don't. They shouldn't take too much offense at your opinion. After all, it's only your opinion, not everyone else's. And you might very well be doing them a great favor by pointing out something that might need to be changed. So overall: It can be awful, but it can always be good as well.
1.) Some people say I'm nice or sweet, does that mean I am?
2.) Some people say I'm the bitch from hell, does that mean I am?
3.) Some people say bad things behind my back, does that make them true?
4.) Some people say bad things to my face, does that make them better?
5.) Some people say I'm obsessed with attention, does that make it true?
6.) Some people say I'm too shy for my own good, does that make it the truth?
7.) Some people will tell me what's wrong with me right to my face, does that make them honest?
8.) Some people think that insulting others will make them feel better about themselves, does it really?
9.) Some people say one thing and then do the exact opposite, does that make them liars?
10.) Some people will never tell others what they really think about them, does that make them awful?
Answers:
1.) I guess that it really depends. At times I can be, this I will admit. And to certain people I'm always as nice as I can manage, because they deserve it more than others. Some people just need someone there to be nice or sweet to make them feel better. Others seem to want to haul off and hit me for it. So it can be true at certain times, around certain people. And if I'm not sweet or nice to the wrong people, then my apologies, let me know. So overall: Maybe
2.) To certain people, yes, I believe that I might very well seem to be the bitch from hell. Clash with my personality too much and disregard or insult me and I will be bitchy to you alot of the time. If you hurt my friends, even in the slightest, then I will be bitchy towards you no matter if I know you or not. Hurting my friends is not something I appreciate in the slightest, even if they might claim it doesn't bother them much at all. So overall: If you do the wrong thing at the right moment.
3.) Why would saying them behind my back make them any truer than saying them right in front of me? It might actually make them less than likely to be true, if you're too afraid to say them right to me. I mean, come on, all I ask is that you tell me. Don't like me? TELL ME AND I'LL FUCKING GO AWAY!!! Cold shoulder me for no reason, snap at me when I did nothing, say something untrue... that's not telling enough, I much prefer words. So overall on the whole behind-my-back: Hell no
4.) Actually, I think that it does make them better. Say something bad right to my face and at least I'll have no doubts about how you really feel. I like it much better that way, no matter how upsetting it might be. Rant about it to others to your heart's extent, but I beg that you tell me too. Right to my face, so you can see my reaction, if I have one. Otherwise I'll never know. My dreams only tell me so much, guys, I can't know everything. My head would explode if I did. So overall: Yes
5.) Saying it doesn't make it true. Saying something that untrue only makes you look like an absolute ass in my eyes, and the eyes of anyone who really knows me. If I really wanted attention, then guess what I would do? Cut myself again, make fresh scars, and wear a short sleeved t-shirt to show off the bright red marks. Or just up and start screaming for no reason at all. Maybe run through campus buck-naked. I sure as hell wouldn't keep so many things bottled up and tell only little bits and pieces when the mood strikes me if I wanted attention. I would tell the world. So... overall: Nope
6.) Could, even though the whole saying it still doesn't mean all that much. I do spend a decent amount of time each day alone, or just with people with whom I've already established some sort of relationship with. Meeting new people is fine and all, in small dosages, but I can get shy in front of large groups, or when I just get put right on the spot. So overall: True in some ways, but not because anyone says it's so.
7.) Sure does. I have extreme amounts of respect for people who can tell me (or anyone for that matter) what they think of them right to their face. It would make life a whole lot easier if everyone just did that, instead of trying to hide it or make everything seem nice. It might prevent some drama too... and keep people from playing off of other's pain to get attention for themselves; if they'll just say what they think straight out instead of waiting until they have the perfect words to make everyone listen to them, no matter if it brings the first person's pain back or not. So overall: Yes'm
8.) It might very well. But if it does then you need severe help with that particular dysfunction of yours. Although everyone does it in small doses, it helps keep us all sane, but there is a line that must be drawn. Cross that line a couple of times and you're going to become the local gossip who is always talking and never, ever shutting her mouth. Hurting other people, even those you claim to care about, might not even matter to you... so long as you feel better for some sick reason by tearing everyone around you down. Someday you might even hope that they hear everything, it'll make it better. So overall: Maybe, but who cares?
9.) Depends on the circumstances, really. Now, if you say that you hate a certain someone and then go act all cheerily happy and friendly towards them, then I'm going to say you're either a liar or a hypocrit. ESPECIALLY if you tell others to do the exact opposite of what you did. I mean... seriously, who does that? And why? In other cases it may be understandable to a certain extent, but only in some cases. The majority are not 'some cases', they are just what they appear to be. People saying one thing and doing its polar opposite because it's easier. Except... life isn't easy, trust me on that one, I've one through enough to know. Overall: Most likely.
10.) It very well can, unless, of course, you never know said person. Now if this person is supposedly your friend and you go months without telling them what you really think of them, then I'm going to slip in a vote in favor of you being on the awful side. If you don't like someone (such as a 'friend' not liking me for example) then just tell them why you don't. They shouldn't take too much offense at your opinion. After all, it's only your opinion, not everyone else's. And you might very well be doing them a great favor by pointing out something that might need to be changed. So overall: It can be awful, but it can always be good as well.
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